Following a comment I posted on thebiglist, I thought I'd propagate a link here:
Lamont's Rules of Jen -- "A constantly evolving set of guidelines for dealing with resplendent Jenitude on a day-to-day basis."
Read it. Learn it. Live it.
And while you're at it, check out the Jencyclopaedia. It's a few years old, but what the hell.
[Special bonus bit of trivia ('cuz it's all about me): My mom named me after actress Jennifer Jones, who played a Eurasian doctor in Love Is a Many-Splendored Thing.]